Marilyn, it makes me so sad to read your post.  I know that Enchanted Gardens has meant a lot to you, for a long time.  We all started in MSN, and that was really nice while it lasted.  So many groups moved over to facebook, or at least their members did. I know you aren't interested in posting over there., but one of the nice things is that you find so many long-lost friends, whether from childhood, high school or other websites.  The most important thing to me is reaching out to all my family at the same time.  Quite honestly, the only spare time I have is on weekends, as long as the weather keeps me indoors.  I spend more time on Ancestry.com than anywhere else. The membership & DNA test were very expensive, & my daughters were good enough to give it to me as a Christmas gift.   It's very time consuming, but intriguing at the same time.    That said, I do try to get here at least once a week.